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For a long time, I chose relationships where I did most of the work — which left me feeling more like a project manager than a partner.
I stayed because I was middle-aged, overweight, and considered “too much,” and I didn’t truly believe I could have what I wanted.
After my last breakup, I took time off to find myself again, reclaiming my power and my happiness. I stopped playing it safe and put myself out there with unapologetic authenticity — and called in my partner literally overnight.
That experience became the foundation of the work I do today, helping high-achieving empaths stop repeating old patterns and start creating relationships that are supportive, reciprocal, and genuinely aligned.

I’m a certified life coach, Reiki Master, and the author of Be the Soul Mate You Want to Attract. My work has been featured on Ireland AM, RTÉ Radio 1, BBC, RSVP Live, The Irish Independent, global love summits, and media outlets across the U.S.
Most dating advice focuses on strategy — what to say, what not to do, how to be more appealing to the most people, how to get someone to text you back — all of which quietly reinforces insecurity.
I work differently.
I help people release limiting beliefs and change what they believe is possible for them in love — so they show up with unapologetic authenticity, which is what actually changes the kind of relationship they attract.
I’ve lived and shifted the patterns I now help my clients break — not from theory, but from experience. I chose relationships that held me back and distracted me from the happier, more purposeful life I was meant to live. That shift changed everything — and it’s the same one I’ve helped clients all over the world make before attracting their partners.
If you’re ready to stop repeating the same patterns in love and finally create the kind of relationship you’ve always wanted, you can explore ways to work with me below!
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