I'm a law of attraction life coach, marketing expert and Reiki Master whose superpower is seeing and coaxing your most badass self to come out and play so your soul tribe can recognize you. I flew my freak flag and attracted my soul mate, who inspired me to embrace my purpose of being a life coach. Through my signature Step Into Your Sovereignty & Attract a Higher Love Program, and my epynomous book, I use my intuition, empathy, training and experience to help fabulous, soulful singles step up and attract their most ideal soul mates--helping make the world a better place.
I was the classic text book case of a woman seeking men who were all wrong her to heal wounds from childhood. I seemed to attract men who couldn't give me what I wanted, nor did they want to. I spent five years in a relationship with a man who couldn't commit. I realized he was a mirror for my own lack of commitment to myself and what I deserved.
So, I went on a two-year journey of healing and transformation. When I was ready to date again, I realized I had three societal strikes against me:
Despite all the reasons why Hollywood and the media told women like me I would never play anything more than the supportive best friend role, I changed my mind about what was possible for me and became the leading lady of my story.
Prior to posting my profile online, I studied intensively with dating and relationship gurus, going on adventures and living my best life.
I was puzzled at first by who I was attracting. All of the men winking at me online were cubs looking for cougars. My single girlfriends were envious, but I didn't need to get my groove back. I needed my soul mate.
And then it hit me. Here I was a marketing expert and I was promoting myself all wrong. I was vague about my agenda, and kept everything light so I wouldn't scare anyone away. I decided to get brave and let my freak flag fly, rewriting my profile and being upfront about wanting marriage. I put my essential needs, offerings and dealbreakers right out there so my soul mates could see me.
The next morning, four men with similar values and goals enthusiastically introduced themselves. One of them was my husband Todd.
If I hadn't been through my training, I might have not have recognized my soul mate.
We're brainwashed to look for exciting butterflies and intense physical chemistry, instead of the person we can relax with and be completely ourselves. Talking with Todd felt like coming home to an old friend, who accepted and celebrated me exactly as I was.
That deep connection created a passion driven by spirit, and taught me about unconditional love. That mutual support allowed us to release the excess weight and propelled us higher on our paths towards our soul purpose. He left biotechnology and became the artist he always was, and I became the life coach i was meant to be.
I used my story, and my learnings to write my book, Be the Soul Mate You Want to Attract. I coach singles on how to step up for themselves and attract a higher love.
Once they have it, I help them maintain and nourish their soul mate relationships. And if in that process they need help finding soul-aligned careers, I am thrilled to assist in that transformation.