As a certified life coach specializing in dating and relationships, I leverage my training, experience, empathy and intuition to empower you, so you can show up as your best self for you and your ideal mate. Whether you're looking to master soul mate attraction, or learn how to sustain your soul mate partnership, I will use my superpower of seeing your potential to keep you on your transformational track.
Soul mates inspire each other to evolve and share their gifts, which positively impacts their communities. My soul mate inspired me to embrace my purpose of being a life coach, so I could make the world a better place by helping others achieve their potential. I'm passionate about my role in helping you live your mission as a mate and couple, whether it's coaching you through relationship dynamics, career and money issues or health challenges. I take a law of attraction approach that's spiritual yet grounded and practical, using my unique Soul Mate Magnetizing Program to help you make the soul mate shift you're looking for.
When I was 26 years old, a famous psychic told me I wouldn't get married until I was in my 40s.
Needless to say, I wasn't thrilled by the idea. I was well on my way to creating an incredible career in PR & Marketing, which enabled me to travel the world and work with fabulous people of different cultures. I ached to have my soul mate with me to share my experiences.
But the psychic was right. I wasn't ready. Whenever anyone in a happy long-term relationship assured me he would appear when I was ready, I thought they were smug and clueless. I couldn't understand why they had what I wanted and I didn't. I read up on law of attraction, and still I manifested a string of bad relationships. I did therapy, and while I attracted a long-term relationship that seemed ideal on the surface, it was not. It took me years of being with a nice man who simply couldn't give me what I needed to realize I still had work to do. I had to make a deeper shift.
After I grieved that breakup, I began a journey of self-care and self-love, which filled my spiritual tanks and inspired me to rediscover myself, from connecting with a shaman in Machu Picchu and becoming the Reiki Master I had always wanted to be, to investing in a trainer, a coach and a slew of relationship workshops.
Still, I was attracting the wrong guys. I was attracting chubby chasers and cubs looking for cougars. While it was flattering in a sense to be appreciated as "big and beautiful," I wanted much more than a physical connection.
One day, when I was closing in on 45, it dawned on me that I wasn't being very brave or authentic on how I was presenting myself online. Oh, I was showing current pictures of my Rubenesque self, but I wasn't being up front about my true desires, agenda and deal breakers. I was playing it safe. I decided right then to recreate my profile and put my agenda out there, even if it scared some away. As I shined the proverbial spotlight on the real me, I set my intention to manifest a healthy, joyful partnership with a much clearer vision. I decided to trust the universe on diving timing and to let it go. I went to bed that night feeling peace for the first time in my soul mate attraction quest. I felt a shift deep inside, like everything was finally in alignment and all I needed to do was wait.
I purposely resisted my habit of checking my dating app messages in the morning, and instead went for a walk on the beach. I took an art class and met a friend over coffee. That evening I cooked a healthy meal as I was trying to get more fit. As I prepared for bed, I took a deep breath and casually checked my inbox.
There were four "winks" from completely different and finally appropriate men--and one of them was my future husband. All of them told me they were wowed by the authenticity and liveliness of my profile, and one said he savored it several times over coffee to take it all in. All of them were grown up men who resonated with who I was and who reflected my new vision.
When I met my husband Todd, it was clear I had really made the soul mate shift! The universe's record-breaking response to my shift has inspired many people over the years, and later motivated me to become a law of attraction coach.
What happens AFTER you meet your soul mate is an entirely different journey. It's not an easy one, and it's not meant to be. In fact, your soul mate can push your buttons like no one else can, clearing out any remaining resistance to embracing your life purpose. If you expect a fairytale and resist this process, it can be hell. In fact, this is when many relationships get discarded. But if you can trust yourself, and surround yourself with supportive people, and ride it out, you wake up on the other side into a better place than you've ever been.
Todd and I helped each other transform in so many ways, including shedding a tremendous amount of weight (120 pounds for him and 180 for me). That was a huge metamorphasis in and of itself. I feel like Benjamin Button, aging in reverse and feeling more vital than ever before. But the bigger change reinventing our careers so they were more in alignment with our joy and life purpose. Todd became an incredibly talented, insightful and innovative fine art photographer. I expanded a career I enjoyed in PR, leveraging my communication and marketing skills to become a well-rounded coach. Finding our bliss has in turn blessed others who needed support to make their shifts.
I'm so grateful for the journey that has brought me here. And I would be honored to support you in yours. I know I can help you get into alignment and compress the timeline between you and your soulmate. Together, we and other soul mates can inspire the world!
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